Recently, scientists and doctors have proven that every 100th person on Earth is a psychopath. You do not believe these statistics? But take a closer look at those around you.
A psychopath is not a maniac, he does not wait for you in the bushes at the entrance, does not guard you in the gateway with a knife in his hands. A psychopath is a person who can do evil and not feel remorse. Such a person, as a rule, gives pleasure to see someone else's grief, and he will gladly do everything possible to annoy someone.
Do you know such people? Have you met? Perhaps this is your classmate or colleague, relative or close friend? Consider the most common and reliable signs that you are dating a psychopath.
10. Excessive courtship and perseverance that violates all boundaries of personal space
A person seeks to please you in everything, he is annoying, trying to show his love, but sometimes he goes beyond the limits. At first you think that you have found your ideal, your other half, however, over time, you get tired of such abundant attention. A man wants to control your whole life, he does not tolerate secrets from his companion. It is easy to get tired of plentiful attention and large reserves of internal resources are spent on it.
9. The desire to achieve any emotions in any way possible
The young man constantly needs empathy, empathy for his problems. He wants you to take care of him, live his life. He begins to demand more and more attention from you. It doesn’t matter to the psychopath that he sees joy or tears on your face - he enjoys the very fact of manifestation of emotions and emotional disturbances.
8. Relations with several people at the same time
Psychopaths love attention, so they try to surround themselves with as many people as possible. Note, most likely, this person has other relationships on the side, which he builds in parallel with you. Such people seek polygamy, or try to create several families at the same time. The option of a love triangle is also not excluded, think, can you come to terms with this?
7. Love for constant manipulation and denial of reality
This man enjoys seeing someone else's torment. He will plague you with his jealousy, although he allows himself to reckless actions. The psychopath likes to change himself, but at the same time reproach his companion for treason. By asking him questions directly, you will come across a complete denial. It is almost impossible to get the truth from such a person.
6. The desire to provoke and love for squabbles
This person will make you nervous, lose your temper. He loves conflicts and seeks to develop them. In most cases, psychopaths like to blame their victims for what they themselves are guilty of. The young man will be fine-tuned to adjust your quarrels with others, wanting to see you in anger. Provocation for conflicts is an art that all psychopaths masterfully master.
5. The ongoing lie
The young man is constantly lying. He does this either naturally or exaggeratedly. A lie is pathological; a person cannot exist without it. He needs to find all the excuses or come up with something fantastic, just to lie. This love of fiction is inherent in him from birth and every year a lie progresses. Truth from a person is becoming increasingly difficult and unrealistic.
4. The desire to adjust the quarrel
Your boyfriend secretly tries to embroil you with all your friends and relatives. He slander you at them, they gossip about you. He likes that he is the only person who is close to you. The young man wants to be your support, but this seemingly good desire is achieved in disgusting ways. Thus, you will soon be left without friends, all loved ones can turn away from you, and you will be left alone with your psychopath. Want to be such a hostage to circumstances?
3. Undermining someone else’s self-esteem and the desire to humiliate another person
Have you noticed that your young man likes to mock others? Over those who are weaker than him? He loves to insult, humiliate and dominate. If a guy says that you will not achieve anything in life, because you are stupid, naive and kind-hearted, then you should part with this person. The psychopath likes to humiliate other people, especially those who are not sure or have doubts about themselves. The psychopath revels in demonstrating his own superiority, but you should not forget that it is imaginary.
2. The desire for constant attention
This person wants by any means to be in the spotlight, he wants everyone to discuss and envy him. The psychopath will demand special attention from his girlfriend. He longs to see you around him all day. The psychopath's partner will constantly suffer from the demands of being around, being more attentive to the subtle nature of the person. Think about whether you are ready to spend 100% of your time on another person, and is it as simple as it seems?
1. The desire to change another person beyond recognition
The psychopath wants to change you, make you vulnerable and depressed. You become powerless, as if someone is taking away your energy. The young man wants to “squeeze” you, constantly torment and see your tears. You feel that you are changing before your eyes when you are near it. Each psychopath wants to remake, “redraw” his partner “for himself”. Think about whether you need such a change?
If you find in your young man at least three of the ten qualities that are characteristic of psychopaths, then pay attention to this. Such character traits are inherent only to people with an unstable psyche.
Have pity on yourself and think about your future. It’s impossible to build a happy relationship with a psychopath. Do not let anyone suppress and humiliate you, do not let him nourish your energy. Stay away from the psychopath. After the lapse of time you will understand that you did the right thing by breaking up with a person with a spoiled psyche.