They say that men fall in love with appearance. If you want to be happy in a relationship, then try to get rid of them.
10. The habit of being late
Non-punctuality is the trouble of many women. Going on a date, girls very carefully choose clothes, do complex makeup, styling. At this time, the man is waiting at the appointed place and nervously looking at his watch. If a delay occurred only once, then he will most likely forget about this misunderstanding, but if a girl with enviable regularity makes her wait hours for her appearance, then sooner or later the man’s patience will burst. The way out of the situation is simple: start to pack in advance, provide yourself with an extra hour and you can not worry about a frustrated meeting. If time is short, choose a simple hairstyle and a minimum of makeup. The man most likely will not notice that you look different, but he will appreciate punctuality.
9. To pick up other people's things
Want to quarrel with your loved one? Tidy up his things. Better yet, do a real spring cleaning and throw away everything you don't need. In fact, this habit annoys everyone, regardless of gender, but it simply infuriates men. What women consider a mess is not really that. A man always knows where and what lies with him, and will not tolerate interference in his territory. Therefore, do not expect gratitude from your husband if you have put things in order in his tools and now everything is perfectly clean there. He will look for pliers or a hammer for a long time, and you will be to blame.
8. Gossip
Do you seriously think that your man is interested in where a friend bought this dress that makes her full, and who is her new lover? Chop on your nose: gossip is not for men's ears. This habit is alarming and suggests that in its absence you allow yourself to savor the details of your intimate life with your friends. If you want a man to trust you and be open, stop discussing people behind your back. Instead of looking for flaws in others, focus on their strengths. The ability to notice other people's successes and enjoy it attracts representatives of the stronger sex.
7. Spending time with friends
Sometimes we all need to meet friends, chat, relax to get a boost of fresh energy. Sometimes it’s not every day. When such meetings take place too often, accompanied by drinking alcohol, dancing the night away, flirting, any man will draw certain conclusions about your frivolity, and will not make serious plans for a joint future. And your friends will become his number one enemy. In his chosen one, he, first of all, wants to see the mother of her future children, which means she should not spend too much time on friends, bars and nightclubs.
6. Wearing a date is not comfortable
Every woman has shoes that are very comfortable to sit in. And for some reason she chooses them to go on a date with her beloved. Ten minutes later, she begins to limp, and after twenty she asks the man to carry her in his arms in the literal sense of the word. Instead of relaxing and enjoying walking and socializing together, he is forced to take on the role of a porter. The same applies to overly narrow dresses that constrain movement, making it difficult not only to walk but also to sit. First of all, a man wants to see a light, lively, cheerful girl next to him, and not a porcelain doll.
5. Cry for no reason
Women are very emotional. They really can cry over things that men consider stupid and trifles: a broken nail, an insulting word, a sad film. Many women cry with happiness. In men, women's tears cause mixed emotions: a desire to calm and a sense of guilt for what is happening. No wonder women's tears are considered one of the most powerful weapons of the weaker sex. At the sight of a crying woman, the man is lost and is ready to do everything to calm her down. However, often women abuse their emotionality. No man will tolerate such manipulations.
4. Total control
Relations are built on trust. However, many girls believe that the more vigilant they protect a man from contacts with the outside world, the stronger their relationship will be. In fact, everything turns out exactly the opposite. Feeling on his neck an invisible leash from eternal questions: “Where were you?”, “Who were you on the phone with?”, “Why were you late?”, The man seeks to free himself and distance himself from his beloved. True, if she continues to cause scandals and violate his personal boundaries, she soon risks being left alone. No man will tolerate if a lady secretly penetrates his email, social network account or phone.
3. It takes a long time to get ready
Each time, before leaving the house, a woman opens the closet and sadly in her voice broadcasts that she again has nothing to put on. She can choose an outfit, but already standing on the threshold, suddenly remember that the dress does not match the color of the varnish on the nails, and the process of choosing clothes will start again. Some women still manage to ask their soulmate a question about which outfit is better to go to, and without receiving a detailed answer, they are offended. All this time the man is waiting, annoyed, nervously smoking, sighing, walking from corner to corner. As a result, they are late, the mood deteriorates in both. If you care about relationships, learn to think about your outfit in advance. Better to prepare in the evening what you are going to wear.
2. Unreasonable jealousy
They say that blaming a person for what he did not do is to give him an idea. Even if there is no obvious reason for jealousy, a woman can come up with her own scenario for the development of events to the question of why he did not pick up the phone and no arguments will help here. In the case of causeless jealousy, if a man is faithful to his chosen one, and she continually rolls up scandals and suspects him of treason, sooner or later he will get tired of this state of affairs. There may be two options for the development of events. Either the man will ask you to leave him alone and leave, or he will go all out to meet the “expectations” of the woman. Female suspicion is unlimited, but male patience ends quickly enough.
1. Pity for everything
Many representatives of the stronger sex are repelled by excessive compassion. Women are compassionate creatures. The sight of a homeless kitten falling out of the nestling chick, news of the starving in Africa, immediately makes them feel sorry. At the same time, they only gasp and sigh, not trying to somehow change the situation, and with their conversations, tears about how everything is bad, annoy the man, while others will definitely bring the kitten home, try to feed the picked up chick, give half the salary to the center helping African children. A man, inherently less emotional, will say that she is inflating an elephant from a fly.