Can poverty be inherited or acquired in life? Most people will believe that poverty is an exclusively economic phenomenon in society. Anyone can get rich, in order to increase their chances, you just need to get rid of 10 habits.
10. Search for the guilty
The ability to take responsibility, distinguishes a successful person from a poor person. The poor man’s psychological approach to problems is that the people around him are to blame for all the misfortunes and failures of life. Such a person will think that colleagues, relatives, friends, prevent him from realizing his life potential. He will never think that all the fault lies solely with him. It was his actions that caused the situation that occurred, is negatively perceived by him. Analysis of their actions and real responsibility for them is the first quality of a successful person.
9. Wasting time
A person mentally inclined towards poverty always thinks: “What would kill time for?” Definitely - this is the wrong approach. Time is the only resource that is not being replenished in our life. Such thoughts must be transformed in the right direction so that the mind is confined to the main question: "How can I use this time to the maximum benefit?" The result of such a change in thinking: the poor man kills his time, a successful person uses it correctly and rationally, remembering that time has the tendency to end in our life.
8. Occupation is not a favorite thing
The poor man wakes up every morning with the thought that he has to go to a low-paid, not beloved job. He gets up, dresses and slowly walks into the office, thinking along the way what to think of in order to justify his lateness. Then the minutes slowly flow, he tries to do nothing and loiters around the office aimlessly, because the work annoys such a person. Again, the whole snag in the psychological barrier that is in the human head. You need to choose a job to wake up early in the morning to think: "What needs to be done to increase profits?" or "How to increase production productivity?" Immediately quit the bored work and do what really brings pleasure and excitement.
7. Buying unnecessary items
Rational use of earned cash. One of the main qualities that distinguish people. After all, the rich did not become so because they began to earn huge money, and then that they learned how to distribute them correctly and invest in a profitable business. There are many examples where misuse of money, wastefulness can send even a successful person to the bottom of the social ladder. An example of this is the magnificent boxer Michael Tyson, who simply spent all his earned fortune and as a result, at one time was rather poor. A positive example is Arnold Schwarzenegger, who invested in real estate, tried to increase it and embodied the "American dream."
6. Envy
Are you starting to project the life of famous people on your own? It is impossible to commit such brutal actions in the relationship of one's “I”. Modern culture with all its own forces pushes the person to a similar mistake. Idols lead a bright, colorful life. The poor always fall into a psychological trap, begin to compare themselves and their idols. Gradually, a person falls into the shadow of his hero, he begins to live his life, rejoice in success and upset for the failures of a celebrity. The poor man completely forgets that his life is not infinite. Fear of building his own life dominates him, makes him a hostage and dooms him to a colorless existence.
5. Search for freebies
People predisposed to poverty try to get something for free. It can be courses, seminars, trainings, but it is worth remembering: "free cheese only in a mousetrap." Why does a person not think about that: Who will be a lecturer in a free lesson or what is his competence in this matter? A self-respecting professional will not often share the secrets of his profession with everyone. The price of a course of lectures is that gendarme that will encourage a person to work hard and absorb the knowledge gained. It is necessary to have a strong will to engage and develop without external coercion.
4. Do not pay others for work
The worldview of the poor is based on the principle of receiving a certain benefit for free. However, such a philosophy psychologically decomposes a person, creates the preconditions of disrespect for the work of other people in him. This gradually leads to the fact that he ceases to appreciate his work. At one fine moment, the unfortunate mistakenly understands the aimlessness of his work and those around him in society. Gradually, social demands begin to decline. This can be expressed in downloading movies from free resources with low extension and poor quality. Unfortunately, this is only the beginning of social and psychological degradation.
3. Act for sure
People with the psychological orientation of the poor are not ready to sacrifice and risk their rather modest budget for profit. The tiny salary that a person receives steadily creates the illusion of stability and reliability. However, this is just self-deception, creating your own comfort zone. As a rule, the main point is: "I will invest in a reliable company." Such a position seems reasonable to many, and some even take pride in their ghostly prudence. The problem is that any investment is a risk and it is impossible to predict what the investment will be.
2. To think about the opinions of others
The psychology of a person who could not realize himself in life, occupy a decent social niche in his opinion, revolves around the thesis that people around will say. However, a successful individual will never pay more attention to the opinion of the crowd. A classic of American literature once suggested that most people are usually wrong, because most idiots. While the poor man is worried about the opinions of others, he is trying to create some kind of image, he spends a lot of time, effort, money on it. The rich man just goes to the goal. A vivid example of Donald Trump.
1. Self-pity
Unlucky with parents, did not receive proper education, was not born in another country - this is only a fraction of thoughts, a loser who wants to be pitied. There are millions of reasons and factors that the poor will find in his defense. He believes in this nonsense and is ready with fists to defend his error. Self-flagellation and self-righteousness “warms” the soul and does not allow us to notice the main thing, that only its material condition and well-being depend on it. There were no and were not guilty of his troubles, only he was responsible for his life.
Get rid of these habits really. However, again returning to the main idea of the article, material or psychological well-being depends solely on the individual.